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 “. . . imagining that godliness is a means of gain.
 6 But godliness with contentment is great gain, 7 for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. 8 But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content. 9 But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.â€
This is a transition from Paul’s discussion of false teachers and teachers desiring to preach the gospel for the express desire to become rich. In response to those trying to make the gospel merchandisable Paul says, “godliness with contentment is great gain.â€
First, what does the author mean by “godliness?†For our discussion, I interpret godliness to mean one’s relationship with Christ, through faith, and what He has done upon the cross. The contentment that we find through this relationship is where one finds meaning and happiness in that relationship. It is a sufficiency that comes completely from Him, as we trust in Him.
If one can learn to be content in their relationship with Christ then the lure and bright lights of this world will fade. There is a refrain in the old gospel hymn “Turn Your Eyes,â€
“Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,

And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,

In the light of His glory and grace.â€
Paul then references eternity. Contentment in Christ will keep one focused on what is truly important in this world. For you can’t take the car, the home, the clothes, the awards, diplomas, or anything else we have in this world with you into eternity (Job 1:21).
Paul says to be content with food and clothing. Why does he mention these items? And not shelter, security, family, etc.? Why food? Why clothing? Each time we sit down to eat or put on our clothes we know that these things will not last. Hours later we will crave something else to eat, and eventually our clothes will wear out, fade, unravel, or stain and we will need more.
Paul is saying that if we have food for the moment and clothes for the moment then be content in that moment. Don’t worry about lunch as you are putting the fork in your mouth at breakfast. Trust him now. Contentment is being satisfied with what you have at the moment and not having anxiety about the future.
Matthew 6:26 “Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? (ESV)”Â
But the real question is “are we content with the provision that the Lord has given to us?†Are we thankful for the grace of the Lord and His hand upon our lives? There are consequences for those that continue to stretch out from under His hand. The love of money is described as a snare and a temptation. He even has one metaphor lead to another.
 Temptation – Snare – Harmful Desires – Ruin & Destruction
The progression is one from freedom to slavery. You have a choice to give in or walk away from a temptation (Hebrews 2:18). Then if you walk into the temptation then you are snared. With a snare the more you move the tighter it becomes. Once you are tight in the snare and have given up on resisting your desires change. Then when you have become trapped in these desires you are ruined, you are destroyed.
The Greek word used for “love-of-money (specifically love-of-silver)†is “philarguria.†It’s root is “phila†like Philadelphia, “the city of brotherly love.†Wikipedia describes it as,
“Philia (φιλία philÃa) is “mental” love. It means affectionate regard or friendship in both ancient and modern Greek. This type of love has give and take. It is a dispassionate virtuous love, a concept developed by Aristotle. In his best-known work on ethics, Nicomachean Ethics, philia is expressed variously as loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality, and familiarity. Furthermore, in the same text philos denotes a general type of love, used for love between family, between friends, a desire or enjoyment of an activity, as well as between lovers.[1]â€
It’s interesting that Paul uses the “root†as a metaphor for this love of silver. Those that seek after it see it as something that sustains them and gives them nourishment. If a person loves money and sees it as the source of happiness and fulfillment then they will do “all kinds of evil†to get it. It doesn’t last so they must continue to seek after it, continuing to do even more evil in pursuit of it. We are encouraged to have this kind of love and pursuit after Christ — so the lie is that we give something else this adoration.
The true evil of lacking contentment in our relationship with Christ and desiring the things of this world above Him, is that we lose the freedom to pursue God’s calling upon our lives. We lose His voice and direction upon our day-to-day lives. This is one of the greatest strategies of the evil one.
If Satan has lost someone to Christ (eternity), then he will seek to make him ineffective for Christ’s kingdom (here and now). Satan will encourage him to seek after smoke, fool him into believing it will last forever, and convince him into taking time to store it in bottles. While he is chasing smoke a world dies around him.
Paul also describes this behavior as a “craving†or “to stretch toward†as if reaching for a fruit on a branch just out of reach. The love of money has one always reaching, stretching, and craving something that will not last.
The stretching and craving after money leads one away from their God given calling and purpose and “pierced themselves with many pangs.†Another way to say this is to be “pushed on all sides to pain†The world seems to be falling in on them to the point of pain. They feel as they are starving to death, the pangs of hunger. Instead of having peace and contentment in Christ, they are always anxious and in pursuit of something that fades.
The folly of having love for money (above one’s love for the Lord) is that it changes our perception. We don’t see money as a tool instead it becomes our source of happiness. We walk away from our God given purpose, and we believe that our purpose is to be rich (or to have just a little more than we have right now). We see the world as permanent, and believe that eternity will never come (even though we would never admit that at church). Even if death knocks at our door, we can take our wealth earned on earth to heaven.
But those that see the truth have been so focused on Christ they have been seen by others as being poor. Their lives were not spent in seeking after riches but instead were steady predictable servants for Christ. If they do stand out in the crowd for their dress or meal it was because of its’ apparent poverty. What the world didn’t realize that their wealth was stored up in heaven, their purpose firmly understood, and their paths straight.
What the world sees as gain, Christians see as loss. What the people of God see as gain to the world it appears as loss.
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Francis Chan is one “celebrity†pastors who seems to have taken this idea to heart. Click here to read an article about how he has put his into action.
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_words_for_love
Have you ever found yourself in a situation (conversation, meeting, accusations being made, etc.) and all that is within you wants to react severally? In these moments you feel defensive and anxious.
As a leader you also feel like you need to be decisive and react quickly with a “come back†that is thorough and well thought through – but in your heart you know it’s not.
Many times when I have been in these situations and have pushed on, even when my heart was saying “stop Drew, you are about to get yourself in trouble,â€
I have said things I wish I could take back. No so much because they were untrue, or mean spirited toward another person, but well just not very well thought out responses. What I have found is that if I am confused with my emotions, then it is best to be quiet (in the heat of the moment) and step away. It does not make you look weak or ignorant to ask for time to respond, or to schedule another time to discuss the issue.
This gives your (and their) emotions times to calm and it gives you time to think. I do best when I go off by myself to think, pray, meditate, read Scripture, and journal. Many times it helps me to lay things out on paper and contemplate the issue at hand.
“On the lips of him who has understanding, wisdom is found, but a rod is for the back of him who lacks sense.” Proverbs 10:19
So let me encourage you to step back, out of the heat of discussion, and consider the following:
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Some Things To Think About
1. Take the time to put into words (on paper) the issue. Write it out. If there is more than one then put them into categories.
2. Write down how you are feeling and why you think you are feeling this way.
3. Ask, “what am I assuming about this issue that I cannot show with facts?†Are you reading things into the issue from your history? In other words, is there emotional baggage that is affecting how you are dealing with this issue?
4. Make a list of the things that are “bugging†you about the issue. Write down, “This bothers me because . . .â€
5. Seek a solution – don’t just gripe. It’s easy to things to complain about. Be a problem solver. As a leader you must be able to put your emotions and feelings to the side for the greater good or the organization. People are looking to you to set the example and to lead.
6. Eventually, when you return to “Lions Den†and your solution is not accepted, or your feelings are not acknowledged, then shake it off and move on. To hold on to ill feelings will greatly affect your ability to lead.
7. Avoid burning bridges over minor issues. The time away helps you to realize if this issue is “a deal breaker†or (while you may feel very strongly about it) really is not that important compared to maintaining a good relationship with those on your team.
There is a saying, “Cooler heads prevail.†If you show yourself to speak too regularly without much thought then you will not be trusted. When truly difficult situations present themselves, your leadership will not be considered.
However, if you can learn the discipline to think, specifically to step away from the heat of the moment, and then come back with a well thought through plan then your leadership will be trusted (even if they don’t agree). In the end, trust is what is at stake.
If you as a leader can show yourself calm in heated moments, then you can hold on to the trust until another day. If your opponent shows themselves to be irrational and too emotional then simply allowing them to show this will only aid your leadership when you return to the issue later.
It’s time to think.
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click here for further reading in this topic.
Church is All About Me? Really?
I usually do not write about differences in doctrine amongst Christians (i.e. the current drama with Mars Hill and Mark Driscoll) – there are just too many other more important issues to focus on. Being a Christian is hard enough without the world seeing us fight amongst ourselves (it doesn’t help to reach those who have not met Christ yet).
The world really has little concern about our worship wars and dress codes. If we address an issue that we disagree over then it should be done privately with grace, empathy (as we are also sinners), and love. When we love a fellow believer then we should not “slam†them publicly. The truth is that most of those who do such things would never do it to their face, and it is much easier to critique someone “from their mom’s basement.â€[1]
Also, when the church stands together we are able to make significant changes in our culture, and when we are divided the world picks us apart. John 13:34-35 “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.â€[2]
(Yeah, Â you knew it was coming) With that being said . . .
you know something’s up when Benny Hinn is attacking your doctrine.
so here’s the clip that is getting much attention right now amongst Christians. Victoria Osteen, the co-pastor of the largest church in America, said, “when we obey God, we’re not doing it for God, it’s for our self.” Now before you line up with your stones to throw, how many have said, “I don’t like the style of music,” or “can you believe what she is wearing at worship?” or “I don’t have time to serve right now, we’re too busy.” How many times have we echoed Osteen’s comment in our lives thinking but never saying, “church is about me and my feelings.”
This is not the first quote, or false idea to have surfaced from Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas that has caused doctrinal ripples. To say she was confused, said something she didn’t mean to say, or that the clip was taken out of context is simply not true. There are too many other quotes (and entire books) that say otherwise.
The reason I reference it is because I meet so many Christians that seem to be losing their way, especially in the area of doctrine. Â 1 Timothy 4:16 “Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers.”
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What’s the big deal? Isn’t this just a matter of opinion?Â
Culture keeps driving us to the truth of the gospel. Issues like baptism, church membership, alcohol, even the hotly debated music wars seem to have drifted into obscurity — many simply say “who cares?” Church attenders seem to not understand basic Christian tenants. Many essential doctrines have become, “well, that’s just your opinion.”
The danger of a weak doctrine among the church is that groups like Mormons and other truly false gospels are thought of as having the same beliefs as Christians. The church is so weak in it’s understanding that it becomes very vulnerable to believing the lies of the deceiver. Know this, that if you believe a false gospel you are not saved. Should we not do as 2 Timothy 2:15 says to, “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.”
Let’s take Victoria Osteen’s comment that has gone viral. Why has it gone viral? Â Is it not because of how far it goes away from what the Bible clearly teaches? But she remains in her position of co-pastor. Then we have Mark Driscoll, the pastor of Mars Hill Church in Seattle, Washington who has solid doctrine but he is being asked to step down from his position for how he has treated others.[3]
But there we have it really in a nutshell. If you preach good feelings and happy thoughts but teach a false doctrine it is overlooked in Christendom. If you teach accurate doctrine but are a mean person, you will be asked to disappear. According to the current Christian culture it is more important for us to be nice than to be solid on our Bible.
Let’s look at that 1 Timothy passage again;Â “Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers.”
The ultimate issue is salvation “both [for] yourself and your hearers.” (those are pretty big stakes if we get this wrong). Â We must watch our own lives — we typically think of this in reference to sin. But could it also reference how our lives affect those around us (attitude, hospitality, generosity, compassion, etc.?) If you are a genuinely loving person then others will be open to what you have to tell them (i.e. Joel Osteen). But what you tell them must be doctrinally sound because there is only one gospel.
John 14:6 “Jesus said, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'”Â
Therefore, be nice, study your Bible, and buy a book on doctrine. It doesn’t sound fun but it is essential to understanding the things of God. It is much easier and fun to “claim” wealth, healing, and fame — the Bible and solid doctrine keeps you from seeking after the deceptions of this world. Solid doctrine keeps you focused on what is really important because you have as your foundation — truth.
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[1] To reference Driscoll.
[2] Please no comments about how if we love one another then we should hold each other accountable with proper doctrine (I get that).
[3] articles relating to this topic tend to show that Driscoll is being asked to step down due to his rough treatment of staff and crude comments from the pulpit.
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