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Elements of a World Changing Life (Part One)

When I was a kid, one of the best Christmas presents I ever received was a chemistry set. It had glass test tubes, beakers, a burner, various other scientific equipment and racks of chemicals. I would sit for hours and hours mixing, heating, boiling, and crystallizing. As a kid, I kept hoping that I would find the right series of chemicals and steps to make something explode.

I wanted to see some kind of a big flash, foam, a puff of smoke, or some kind of “cool” reaction.[1]  But no matter how many sequences, or combinations I assembled in my test tubes I was never able to get the cool reaction I wanted to see. After a few weeks the chemistry set went back into the box, and it stayed there for years. Why play with the set, if nothing really cool never happened? I was not content to see salt form, or water changing colors.

You may not have a childlike fascination with chemistry but I would be willing to bet that at some point you have wanted to see your life have a “cool” reaction for the Lord. You have desired to see people’s lives changed because of how you have ministered to them, or to see people receive Christ for the first time, or even see families reconciled, the hungry fed, the blind to see, or the dead to be raised. You are not a Christian, if these desires have not expressed themselves in some way in your life.

When I was in advanced high school chemistry I discovered that there were some key elements that had been removed from my kid’s chemistry set. I still had the kit tucked away in a closet, so I went and examined it. It was these key ingredients that would specifically keep those “explosions” from happening.

If Satan knew what these key elements were, and could remove them from your life’s chemistry set, do you think he would do it? My parent’s wanted a kit that was safe, and so that I would not blow up the house. Satan desires for you to be a safe Christian, and to not “turn the world upside down.” Is there anything sadder than a safe Christian? She has the potential to change the world, but settles for changing nothing.

The Elements that we are about to discuss have the potential to be explosive. When combined together, they will literally change the world. These are what Christ has commanded that we do, and it is what Satan fears you will discover.

The Elements

John 17:18, 20
Matthew 28
Acts 1:8

Christ has called all Christians to make disciples. His last command as He ascended into heaven was “go and make disciples. . .”

I. Element #1; Invest
If we begin with the premise that Christ has commanded all of His followers to make disciples, then how do we do this? We make disciples the same way Jesus did, when he said, “Come and follow me.” For three and a half years Jesus invested himself in twelve men intensively and in thousands with less intensity. Jesus’ disciple making was done with an end-goal of sending them out to make even more disciples.

The focus is not the program, and the management of those programs. Instead, it is and has always been about people investing themselves in the lives of other people – for the express purpose of “making disciples” – and the end goal of sending them out to invest themselves in the lives of other people.

The people Jesus invested in varied from three to thousands.  It varied from intense discipleship to “simply” a healing touch or conversation.  But He invested himself none-the-less.

So the first element of a world changing life is investment. You can invest your life in others in varying degrees. For the girl at the grocery store, you may only have a minute. But for the little boy in your Sunday school class you may have a year. However much time you have, make wise use of it – never waste it.

David and the exploding film container.

While I was in high school my friend David and I experimented with chemicals that we would “borrow” from the advanced chemistry lab. David and I began a series of experiments that included various combinations of chemicals placed in a small black 35mm film container. Our goal was to have a delayed reaction from chemicals mixed together. We had little success until . . .

One evening after school we had planned to hang out and talk about our teenage diabolical plans, so we arranged to meet at my house. As David was driving into my backyard the canister that he had placed in his front shirt pocket suddenly and without warning exploded, sending hot sparks, and extremely stinky grey smoke all over him, his clothes, and the interior of his car. He had the presence of mind to stop the car, and put it in park and then jumped out. As he ran around yelling, slapping his face and shirt to put out the flames, I yelled with glee that we had finally succeeded! His eyebrows and hair were singed, and man did he stink. His clothes were ruined, and he was going to have a hard time explaining the interior burns of the upholstery to his parents. We had succeeded, but it was not exactly what or when we had expected.

When you invest yourself in the lives of others for the sake of Christ, you may find yourself suddenly very messy (even in pain), eyebrows singed, and stinky. But don’t forget that this is a success; you are a part of radical change in this person’s life. Just don’t expect it to be clean, neat, or quiet.

II. Element #2; Go and Multiply.
Where? So if we are to invest ourselves in the lives of others, where will these “disciples” come from? So, where are we to look for these people that we are to invest in? Do I just keep talking to people until I get goose bumps or a spiritual “funny feeling?” Should I wait on top of a mountain for them to find me? Christ tells us that we are not to wait for them to come to us, instead we are to go to them. Acts 1:8, helps us to answer this question.

Acts 1:8 “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth. (ESV)”

When Jesus gave this teaching to the disciples he was in Jerusalem. So, he says that we are to begin at home, and then work outward. We are to focus the investment of ourselves in four areas of outward progression.

  • Jerusalem (our home)
  • (and) Judea (larger context of home – like your state)
  • (and) Samaria (those who are culturally different than you, see Luke 10:25 ff.)
  • (and) The end of the earth (other nations)

Notice that this verse says, “and” in Acts 1:8 but not “or/either.” We do not get to choose if we focus all our efforts into one of these areas, instead we are to balance our investment in all four. In financial terms this would be diversification.

[1] NOTE: I am not a terrorist, and my desire to see things explode has been surpassed by what I desire to see God do on other people’s lives. I would also like to avoid any entanglement with the Homeland Security Agency.  I do not have any explosives, not even the chemistry set when I was a kid.  But I do have a book that has drastically changed people’s lives all around the world.  If there are any Homeland Security Agents, who happen to be reading this, who would like a copy of this book, just let me know.

Isaiah 53 “The Identity of the Messiah”

Untitled from Drew Boswell on Vimeo.

This past Sunday I had the privilege of preaching at Summit Trace Church who meets at Westview Movie Theater in Frederick, MD.

The Identity of the Messiah
Isaiah 53

(Introduction) Acts 8:34-35

I. The Promised One Would Be Rejected (vv. 1-2)
• Romans 10:16-17
• John 1:45-46
• Philippians 2:8

II. The Promised One Would Understand (v. 3)
• Luke 23:18-19
• John 1:11

III. The Promised One Would Save Us From Our Sins (vv. 4-12)
A. As A Substitute (vv. 4-6)
• Romans 5:6-8

B. As a Sacrifice (vv. 7-9)
• Matthew 27:12-14
• John 1:29
• 1 Peter 1:18-19
• Matthew 27:57-60

C. As a Complete Satisfaction (vv. 10-12)

Piggly-Wiggly Bags, Hobo Shoes, and Dealing With Change

I grew up along a rural road, in a rural county, in a state with some wide open spaces. There was no “my neighborhood,” it was more like, “my road.” Along that road children where peppered over ten miles – sparingly. So, in central Alabama it rarely snows, and when it does (trust me) it’s a big deal. But no one on “my road” had snow boots — why would they? Because when it did snow it was nothing more than an inch (at the most).

So we did what any frugal southerner would do when they wanted to play in the “snow.” We would tie plastic Piggly-Wiggly or Wal-Mart grocery sacks around our shoes, and off we would go. The smart kids would put the sack over their socks and then put them in their shoes, but that’s another issue.

Often when these storms would come, it would happen quickly and the snow would be gone within a matter of hours. So if you wanted to experience snow in Dixie, you had to move quickly.

“Mom, where are the Piggly-Wiggly bags!?”

This is often how life comes at you. Changes will occur, and you often feel ill equipped to handle it — why would you? You have rarely experienced “this” before!

Rick Warren says in his book The Purpose Driven Life, “Growth is often painful and scary. There is no growth without change; there is change without fear or loss; and there is no loss without pain. Every change involves a loss of some kind: You must let go of old ways in order to experience the new. We fear these losses, even if our old ways were self-defeating, because like a worn out pair of shoes, they were at least comfortable and familiar.” [1] So jumping off of pastor Warren’s metaphor of growth and shoes here are some things to think about.

Look down and see what kind of shoes are you wearing. If you happen to be in West Virginia, or live on my road in Alabama, look around you may not have seen any for a while, but they are in the house somewhere.

Hobo Shoes — You Have to Change, it’s Just a Matter of When.

In dealing with change and growth you may be (metaphorically) wearing different kinds of shoes. The first kind of shoes you may be wearing are Hobo Shoes. These shoes feel great. They breath when you wear them, even though those around you can’t.  These shoes are well broken in. You know how they will feel, even before you put them on — that’s because there isn’t much shoe to put on.

These are the people who won’t change because what they currently have “works.” But let’s be honest, when people look at you, they are not going to trust you. “Why?” you ask. Because you look like a hobo. These are the people who say, “We’ve never done it just way before” or “If it was good enough for my daddy, and his daddy, and his daddy, and his daddy (you get the idea) then it’s good enough for me!” Why change — because the shoes you are wearing, have long since been worn out. If you wait too long to change you lose credibility. In the days of Covid-19 this this principle is especially true — how you led six months ago, won’t work now; and quit waiting for the good-ole-days to return because they aren’t (at least for a long time).

Track Shoes — As you Change, Constantly Evaluate.

Another type of shoe you may be wearing are track shoes. These people love to move, run, jump, and do hurdles. They are focused on moving forward (as fast as they can). They are focused, and they seek to improve their time. People who (metaphorically) wear track shoes keep their eyes forward, but they are listening for the sounds of pounding pavement behind them. The problem with people who wear track shoes while engaging change is that they are so focused on moving forward faster than anyone else, is that they fail to realize that they are running in circles.

Around and around they go, and never really going anywhere. it feels like things are being accomplished because there is movement. But in reality, the same issues keep popping up again, and again, and again. Track shoe people don’t like to stop and evaluate. If they stop, someone may get in front of them, and take their place. Their focus is the recognition, the prize, and the ribbons.

Kid’s Shoes — Keep Changing, Don’t Stop.

The last shoes are kid’s shoes. I have four kids and they are constantly going through shoes. It seems as soon as we buy a pair they have either “ragged them out” or outgrown them. So we are constantly changing shoes. This is the most healthy way of dealing with growth. When you are feeling the pinch of crowded toes, or the shoes are disintegrating, then get a new pair. Change your shoes.

You may get the wrong size, or they may not fit exactly right — that’s ok. Try them on in the store, give them time to stretch and break them in, and even exchange them if you need to. But never stop moving into new shoes.

Mom, where are the Piggly Wiggy bags? I think it’s starting to snow!

[1] Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven Life (Grand Rapids, Michigan:Zondervan, 2002), 220.

Update: 2/16/2021 While going through some old pictures I came across my piggly wiggly bag snow snows.

 

When the Church Gets Children’s Ministry Wrong

In November of 2010 I posted a series of three articles that deal with security in the church and how important it is to the reputation of the Church and the safety of children. This is a topic in church life that can easily be overlooked or moved to a lower position of importance, in leu of more “urgent” matters. Here are the articles if you would like to review them.

Part One, Part Two, Part Three

The following is an article that I came across last week on AOL news. I am always shocked at what can happen in churches when there is poor leadership and policies and procedures are ignored. I have re-posted the story from AOL and then give a response below.

The Church Is It’s Own Worst Enemy

The AOL articles says, “The pastor and seven members of a small church in central Wisconsin have been charged with using wooden rods to spank infants as young as 2 months old for “being emotional, grumpy or crying,” the Dane County Sheriff’s office said.

The Aleitheia Bible Church, in the town of Black Earth, was started in 2006 with a donation in the range of $500,000-$600,000 from Bob and Lori Wick of nearby Mazomanie, according to a news release from the sheriff’s office. Lori Wick is the author of almost three dozen historical Christian novels with more than five million books in print, according to her Amazon profile. Reached by AOL News today by telephone at their home, Bob Wick said they “have no comment” on the case.

Publicists at Lori Wick’s publisher, Harvest House Publishers, did not immediately respond to emails from AOL News today for comment.

Philip & John Caminiti 

Dane County Sheriff’s Office Philip Caminiti, left, the pastor of Aleitheia Bible Church in Black Earth, Wis., and his brother, John Caminiti, 45, have been charged with a dozen counts of child abuse for allegedly using wooden rods to punish children.

The investigation into the Aleitheia Bible Church began last November, when former members contacted authorities with concerns about how children were being treated, according to the sheriff’s office.

Six church members pleaded innocent to charges of child abuse during an appearance Thursday in Dane County Circuit Court. They were booked and released.

Pastor Philip Caminiti, 53, and his brother, John Caminiti, 45, were charged with a dozen counts of child abuse last week and also pleaded innocent.

The victims included 12 children ranging in age from infancy to 6 years old, according to the sheriff’s office.

“During interviews with detectives, Phil expressed his belief that the Bible dictates the use of a rod over a hand to punish children. He stated that children only a few months old are ‘worthy’ of the rod and that by ‘one and a half months,’ a child is old enough to be spanked,” according to the sheriff’s office release.

“Throughout the investigation, the church members were open with detectives about their ‘Spare the rod, spoil the child’ philosophy. They described using wooden dowels and wooden spoons on the bare skin of children, starting as young as 2 months old,” the sheriff’s office said.

“If you spank early and it is done right, then kids will be happy and obedient,” Philip Caminiti said, according to the criminal complaint.

According to the sheriff’s office, the dowels were described as being 12-18 inches long with a diameter about the size of a quarter. The parents told detectives that “redness and bruising” were the “common effects of the spankings.”

“One person described the children being emotional, grumpy or crying as behaviors that would constitute a spanking with a dowel,” according to the sheriff’s office.

Three sets of parents are among the six others charged, including two of Philip Caminiti’s children and their spouses: Matthew Caminiti, 27, and his wife, Alina, 24; and Maria J. Stephenson, 29, and her husband, Timothy, 28. Also charged are Andrea L. Wick, 26, and Timothy J. Wick, 27.

The children often were punished when they cried or failed to sit still during church services, a former church member told authorities. “Phil was very strict about children being quiet during church,” the complaint states.”

Here’s a link to the actual story.

A Response

What About the “Lost” Who Will Read This Article?

Can you imagine living in Wisconsin (or any other state for that matter) and opening up this article in web browser or newspaper? What if you had just finally convinced your husband or parents that church was “ok” and that the local Baptist church down the road might be worth checking out? These kinds of stories really give the church and it’s leaders a bad wrap, but the sad part of the story is that it’s true. The pastors don’t even try to defend themselves or their actions. They even use the Bible to try and justify their unwise at best and abusive at worst actions.

Also, what about the law enforcement officers and social workers who have to come in and deal with this mess? If they are not believers or have never experienced a healthy church, then this greatly taints their view of Christ, the Church, and Christians.

How will These Children (and their parents) Respond To The Church In the Future?

The issue of abuse is a big part of this story, but it’s not the only issue. What about the children who have to endure these actions — do we really think that when they are old enough to drive that they will hop in their cars and drive to church. I don’t think so. These leaders are driving people away from the church by the droves.

What is the Church Supposed to Do With “emotional, grumpy or crying” Children?

Love them. Teach them. Encourage them. But don’t beat them! It is not the church’s responsibility to discipline children, it is the parent’s. Church leaders should always bring “issues” to the parents attention and let them resolve it. It is the church’s role to guide, assist, support, pray for, and educate — but never the take over the responsibility of discipline or any other parenting responsibility (including teaching).  These critical responsibilities should never be abdicated by parents, nor assumed by the church.

What About Spanking?

Whatever you believe about spanking and children, it is the parent’s prerogative and should be left up to the parent’s to decide how they will disciple their children. Not all children should be disciplined the same way (I will leave this comment for another article). A parent is a far better judge of how to do this since they spend more than one hour, one day a week with the child. The church is not equipped with the proper information nor do they bear the responsibility for discipline.

Therefore, the church should never institute capital punishment of any kind because of the issues mentioned above. Their policy for discipline should be in writing, and the parent’s should be fully aware of the policy. So parents make sure you ask about a church’s discipline policy before you put your kids in any church’s program. And church, if you have not discussed this issue, you may want to do it soon before you are sued, or a child is hurt on your watch.

 

 

 

The Leader’s Toolbox; The Importance of Plan “B”

A Gift Card For Christmas

A few Christmases ago I received a Sears gift card and it was not too many days later that I was standing in the CRAFTSMAN section. I love to meander through the Craftsman tool section. It’s hard to explain the feeling of tools and their potential to build things.  I was there for what seemed hours and went up and down the aisles looking at everything from screwdrivers to commercial table saws, sockets to tool boxes, things that I have no idea what they do, to other things that I have no idea what they do.

I had several salespeople ask me if I needed any assistance, and I said, “no, just looking, thanks.” And I was really looking – but I was looking for a tool in my price range that I didn’t already own.  You see, my father since the time I was young bought me tools for birthdays and Christmases so that by the time I had a family and home, I had enough tools to do basic repairs around the home.  So I really didn’t need any more tools.

So here I was, looking for a tool to do a job in the future, that I don’t even know what the job would even be!  Would something break on my car that would necessitate a special wrench to get the part off? Would we get a hole in a pipe that would require a soldering torch? Would Uncle Hoo Pop fall through the ceiling that would require a dry wall square and various trowels and dry wall paste? Who knows what is going to happen?

When Plans Fail

Last Thursday we had the local Brunswick Pack 277 Cub Scout Pack Meeting. This is where all the boys of all the age grades gather together once a month. We had planned the evening out at the Committee Planning Meeting earlier in the month. I volunteered to lead the night since we do not have a Cub Master. It is (kinda) required that once a year, at a pack meeting that a “Friend of Scouting” representative be allowed to give a sales pitch for giving to Scouts (above and beyond your dues). The year before, the representative talked for about twenty-thirty minutes (or at least it seemed that long).

At the time to start our meeting, there was no FOS representative, so I began. We went through the Pledge of Allegiance, and various other scouting program items, and by the time I was finished, the representative had arrived and I introduced him. In my mind this would take us to the end of the meeting, and all I would need to do would be to wrap things up. But do you know how long he talked? Less than five minutes.

As he neared the end of his presentation, which was over as soon as he began, I suddenly realized that we still had about thirty minutes left to our meeting. Sure we could end early, but not this early.  All eyes were on me . . .

Have you ever been in a situation where what you had planned just didn’t work? You ended way too early? The game is not working? The craft lasted about two minutes, but you thought it would take twenty?  The FOS presenter ends way too early? Did I mention the FOS guy ended way too early! Sure, we all have.

Back to Sears – Spend the Gift Card

So let’s go back to Sears.  In whatever trade you are in, or role you play, we all have “tools” in our toolboxes. These are skills, stunts, tricks that we learn to do what we do, and do it well.  But we must constantly add tools to the toolbox. You can’t fix every problem with a screwdriver. You can’t cut glass with a hammer.

If you work with kids, then a tool may be a new game that you can pull out when the first activity sinks like the Titanic.  If you are a public speaker, it could be a story, a joke, or a sermon that you keep on you all the time. If you are a magician, it may be a trick. But whatever it is, you are prepared so that no matter what happens you always have some way to keep going (even if things seem to be falling apart).

So as you meander through the aisles at Sears, what tools can you add to your toolbox that will help you in your trade? As the years go by, you will add more and more tools, so that eventually you will have a toolbox full of “stuff,” so that there’s not many things that could happen that will stop you. Even when you know that you are running on “Plan B, C. or even D” they will never even know the difference.

I have some tools that I have yet to use (like these pick things, a mirror on a extendable stick, a spark plug socket, etc.) but that’s ok. You may have tools that you haven’t used yet, and that’s ok. We are talking about continually seeking to add to your knowledge base, skills, and bringing your stress level down by being over-prepared.  So spend the gift card, it’s not doing you any good if it expires, gets lost, or slides around in your desk drawer.

Happy Shopping.

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