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Why Would Jesus Not Want Others to Tell What He Had Done? Protecting Your Identity and Calling

defineWe see throughout the gospels that at certain points Jesus was very guarded in letting others know who He was. For centuries the promised Messiah was anticipated. Also along with this anticipation were also traditions and false understandings of what He would do and what He would be like that crept up over the centuries. Some thought the Messiah would be a military ruler and overthrow the Roman Empire. Others though he would act a king. Jesus was working against hundreds of years of false expectations and ideas of what the Messiah would be like.

Matthew 8:29 “And he asked them, “But who do you say that I am?” Peter answered him, “You are the Christ.” 30 And he strictly charged them to tell no one about him.”

Matthew 12:15,16 “Jesus, aware of this, withdrew from there. And many followed him, and he healed them all 16 and ordered them not to make him known.”

Mark 1:34; see also verses 24,25 “That evening at sundown they brought to him all who were sick or oppressed by demons. 33 And the whole city was gathered together at the door. 34 And he healed many who were sick with various diseases, and cast out many demons. And he would not permit the demons to speak, because they knew him.”

Mark 3:11,12 “And whenever the unclean spirits saw him, they fell down before him and cried out, “You are the Son of God.” 12 And he strictly ordered them not to make him known.”

Mark 5:42,43 “Taking her by the hand he said to her, “Talitha cumi,” which means, “Little girl, I say to you, arise.” 42 And immediately the girl got up and began walking (for she was twelve years of age), and they were immediately overcome with amazement. 43 And he strictly charged them that no one should know this, and told them to give her something to eat.”

Luke 4:41 “Now when the sun was setting, all those who had any who were sick with various diseases brought them to him, and he laid his hands on every one of them and healed them. 41 And demons also came out of many, crying, “You are the Son of God!” But he rebuked them and would not allow them to speak, because they knew that he was the Christ.”

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Even Peter, one of Jesus’ closest friends said “Far be it from you, Lord! This shall never happen to you,” when Jesus was explaining how He would have to die on a cross. And Jesus responded, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a hindrance to me. For you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but on the things of man.” (Matthew 16, ESV) He would not let the disciples dictate his mission, instead he would direct the mission through them. They just didn’t get it by Matthew 16 – but they eventually would understand.

Along the way people had preconceived expectations and understandings of how Jesus was to be “the Messiah,” what he was to do, to not do, and how He would “save mankind from their sins.”

It seems that it is important to Jesus for him to define what it means to be the Messiah and for Him to define His own mission (as it came from His Father). As He would go about ministry (healing, teaching, raising the dead, etc.) there would be times when His actions would be misinterpreted or used against His mission, so he forbid people from telling others. He would define things himself.

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Identifying Your Mission

There is only one Jesus (Savior, Messiah, Emmanuel, etc.) who lived a sinless life in order to lay it down on a Roman cross for the salvation of mankind. His mission was unique, but Jesus has also given His followers a mission to make Him known to the nations (Matthew 28). In that Great Commission to all believers there is also a unique mission in how you will carry it out.

We all have different life experiences, talents, skills, spiritual gifts, etc. that God uses in seeing others led to Him. When the gospels were written by the apostles, God used their life knowledge and skills and weaved them into their writings (Luke as a doctor with medical references, Matthew as a tax collector with money references, etc.) God will take you as you are and use you to His glory.

But just as Jesus guarded his identity and mission we have to do so as well. The leader must not allow others to dictate how they lead, or what they do in their leadership capacity – let the Lord give you a vision and direction and lead with that orientation. If you are in a traditional leadership position (pastor, associate pastor, youth pastor, children’s pastor, worship pastor, etc.) there will be set expectations. You were hired as a pastor to perform certain tasks that are needed within the church; I am not talking about going against these things.

But with every position and every organization there are expectations that creep in, that really have nothing to do with your mission and what you are doing for the church. Jesus guarded against these things because they would have taken Him away from His calling. Watch out for anything that will pull you away from your calling. Don’t allow others to dictate who you are and what you do.

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How Do I Keep This From Happening?

We do not have the authority of Jesus to “tell no one about him” or to command others to do anything. But we follow His example of being aware of encroachments to our leadership and take tactful and thoughtful actions against it. Consider the following:

1. A Written Job Description – When it is in writing it becomes much harder for others to dictate what your job should be and how you should do it. When it is not is writing anything goes and you will constantly find yourself fighting the slow encroachment of additional “duties” and responsibilities that were not part of the original picture when you were hired.

2. Regular Evaluations – I know, this doesn’t sound like fun, but when you and those who have the proper authority to evaluate you sit down and talk (regularly) it leads to a peaceful relationship because everyone is on the same page with regard to expectations and responsibilities. If this relationship functions as it should there should be no surprises and you should know exactly how you stand in relationship with the church and your ministry.

3. A Defined Mission Statement – If your church functions as silos (as many traditional churches do) then each ministry may even have their own separate mission statement. But if you define yours then it will direct the course of where the mission should go. If everyone who is apart of your ministry has his or her own understanding of where the ministry is (or should be) going then conflict is inevitable.

4. Regular Communication – If you are like most churches you wonder if anyone actually reads the material (bulletin, newsletter, blog, etc.) that you put out – but some do. By communicating what you are doing, where you plan to go, and how they can help, you are well on your way to keeping the expectation encroachment at bay. As a leader stay in front of the battle with communication and direction, so others will not dictate where you go.

How do we find God? Matthew 2:1-12

For Moses it was a burning bush in the wilderness. For the Wise Men it was a star that guided their way. God does things to get our attention because He desires for us to know Him and to have a relationship with Him. Listen to Matthew 2:1-12 as we ask the question, “How do we find God?”

Zombie Christmas, Undead Jesus; A Lively Response

The following is a quote from Fox 19 and the story of the zombie nativity in Sycamore Township in Ohio.

“SYCAMORE TOWNSHIP, OH (FOX19) – Jasen Dixon’s nativity scene featuring zombies was ordered to be taken down Friday, however, it’s still standing in Sycamore Township.

[Related: Sycamore Township homeowner does unique and unusual nativity scene with zombies]
On Tuesday, Sycamore Township ordered the nativity scene to be taken down. Dixon had until Friday to take the scene down. If he did not take down the exhibit, legal action would have been taken and he would be fined $1,000.

According to documents obtained by FOX19 NOW, Sycamore Township does not allow structures to be located in the front or the side yard to occupy more than 35 percent of the area. Also, the primary structure must be three feet from the street, and six feet from the house.

a69ff0d4ebd563838b7a289d1ad162d5f02a4db0“They actually said that it is taking up about 35 percent of the yard, and it’s not. We did the calculations and it’s like 14, 17 percent,” said Dixon.

No officials from Sycamore Township came by the zombie nativity scene Friday.

FOX19 NOW’s Lindsey Wopschall reached out to Sycamore Township officials to ask if they plan to come by the home to serve Dixon the violation, but they did not wish to comment on the matter.

Dixon says this was his second violation since the exhibit was put up.

“I’ve lived here for 15 years and I’ve never had a violation of any kind,” Dixon said. “It’s a holiday decoration. I know if it was a real pretty nativity scene they wouldn’t be saying anything,” said Dixon.

Dixon has no plans on taking down the nativity scene. Instead he’s using a crowdfunding site with a $5,000 goal to make a better zombie nativity scene next year.”

So as Christians how should we respond to this?

Is it safe to assume that Mr. Dixon does not understand the true meaning of Christmas? I think so. But the sad truth is that most of America doesn’t understand the true meaning of Christmas either. One of the things that is constantly mentioned by those who do not follow Jesus is that the church is filled with hypocrites. Well, I must say, that this topic seems to smack of hypocrisy, but not from Mr. Dixon.

Hypocrite Alert

1) If he were my neighbor and put this up in his yard then it would indicate to me that I had not invested much in our friendship or in being “neighborly.” He may know that I am a Christian but does not have a deep enough friendship with me to respect my beliefs. You would not do this to a friend — but you would not hesitate if you see your neighbors with Bibles in hand going to church on Sunday, but not caring anything about you or your family during the rest of the week. You would not care if you were offending someone you see as a hypocrite.

Jesus died for our sins, rose again to secure a place for us in heaven, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation. So, instead of focusing so much effort on trying to stop his zombie display why not win his heart through love and friendship? Christians have a long history of fighting the wrong battles. We fight for laws to be changed instead of fighting for hearts to be changed. We fight wars to show that we are right, instead of living out a life of gentleness and love.

Romans 12:17 “Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (ESV)”

2)  Christians are celebrating Halloween with Mr. Dixon when he puts up his decorations in October, but now they are offensive in December? Zombies are cool on Halloween but not in December? Yes, I know Jesus was not depicted as a zombie in October. But the argument about zoning and city restrictions is just a farce. Christians are offended and want it taken down.

But if we want to have the freedom to express our beliefs (i.e. nativity in my front yard), then Mr. Dixon should have the right to display his “interpretation” of the nativity as well. Otherwise, those in power begin to dictate religion and how it is to be expressed. I don’t want anyone telling me who to worship, when to worship, or how to express my beliefs in the life of my family. Mr. Dixon is ignorant in his understanding of who Jesus is, but am I going to change his heart by being hypocritical and dictating how he worships and expresses his beliefs according to my belief system? Just because you find it offensive doesn’t mean you should use the government to have it stopped.

In London, there is the (attempted) development of Sharia law “zones” where if you enter into them you have to follow extremist Islamic law. If you don’t then you will be attacked or taken to a kangaroo court for sentencing. What makes America different than these radical religious group’s efforts is that we value the freedom to express our religious beliefs and do not have to fear repercussions from other groups who do not agree with us. We can not hold to our freedom to put up a nativity while denying another person’s freedom do so as well just because we don’t like it.

3) Focusing on this makes Christians look foolish. Some guy put up a tacky display in his yard. Have you driven though the south on Christmas? Are you telling me all those displays accurately show the Christ Child’s heralding? Seriously? Let it go. Focus on what’s important.  Why don’t we make some cookies for our neighbors, you can even make them shaped like  zombies.

Do we love Mr. Dixon, or do we just want him to go away? Honestly, we just want him to stop interrupting our greatly delusional time of the year. However, Mr. Dixon is a wake up call to the true meaning of Christmas. Thank you Mr. Dixon for your undead display. It reminded me that I need to spend more time with my neighbors.

 

Didn’t We Just Decorate the Christmas Tree Last Year? Evaluation and Goal Setting

goalsChristmas shopping is in full swing, radio stations are blaring Jingle Bells, and the end of the year is roaring at us like that toy train at the bottom of the mall Christmas tree. With the end of this year and the beginning of a new one, it is important to take time to evaluate and plan. Tis the season is the best time to sit down, sip some gingerbread latte, and look forward into 2015. There is a wonderful gap in time right after Christmas and before New Years Day when the world’s spinning seems to slow down for a moment.

If we are not careful we will find ourselves repeating the same year again, and again, and again. If we allow ourselves to be swept away by the current of the day we get pulled into an undertow of allowing everyone and everything to dictate our lives. Year after year, after year. . . we will look back on our lives and realize we have gone no where. The way to avoid this is to set aside time to evaluate the previous year and determine a plan for the upcoming year.

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Why set goals?

1.   Goals allow us to direct our lives instead of being directed by circumstances and other’s priorities.

The statement “the squeaky wheel gets the oil” is a very true statement. But if you are constantly putting oil on immediate squeaky wheels you will never have time to determine what is making them squeak and stopping it. Let the wheel squeak for a while and take time to step back and think. Carving out time can be extremely difficult. But understand this time of evaluating and goal setting to be an investment in the overall health of your life and those that you lead.

2.   Goals help you to identify what are the most important areas in your life and establish plans to guard those priorities.

Sit down and choose five major areas of your life. They may be things like family, marriage, ministry, church, friends, education, relationship with God, etc. For example, if you know that you need to spend more time with your spouse, then take this time to figure out what is keeping that from happening.

3.   Goals help you to move forward as a person.

When was the last time that you did something that really stretched you? Goals help us to move from a wish to making something a reality. What is it in your life that is keeping from trying something really big? This may be the year when you need to cut off personalities that are constantly having a negative impact on your life. Set a goal and go for it!

The leader has to train himself to listen to the correct and healthy voices in his life. There will always be those that discourage, irrationally criticize, and are just negative. And there are those that give healthy criticism, and helpful suggestions. There are also that are encouraging, give energy to a situation, and add light to your life. Also, be aware that sometimes that negative critical spirit may even be you. So take some time and think about what you are hearing, who you are hearing it from, and intentionally surround yourself with people who will encourage you to go even further than you have ever been before. You can do it. I do believe that it is so important to reach a little further, and stretch yourself beyond what you feel comfortable doing. [Click here to read this entire article.]

4.  Calendaring With Vision and Goals in Mind.

Now as you look into the new year take your goals and put them on the calendar. For example, if you know you need to take batter care of yourself then put times at the gym on the calendar. It is up to you to guard those goals and times on the calendar. If you and your spouse have set aside Saturdays to be family days – don’t allow something of less importance to crowd out that set aside time. It is important to also build in “margin” or extra space into your calendar so that when life happens and you have to enter into that time you had set aside for something else, then you can still have time to accomplish what was originally in that time slot.

5.   Communicate Your Goals with Those Around You.

Letting other people know what you are working on will communicate to them what is important to you. It can also serve as a point of accountability when you begin to get off track with your goals.

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So What Now?

Vision – what does the end of the road look like? What vision do you have for your life, or far more importantly, what is the vision that God has of you life? Write it down. No one knows the whole life big picture, but you should have some idea for the next year.

Goals – Now after you have seen a picture for the next year, then establish some goals based upon the vision. Goals are not wishes. Wishes have no plan; goals are a vision that you have developed a plan to accomplish.

Mile Markers - Goals are then broken down into reachable steps or “mile markers.” If your goal is to run a half-marathon, then study and research to see how you would train and spread that out over the needed length of time.

Regular evaluation – how are we doing? Are we moving forward? Take time to regularly (daily, weekly) epaulet to see if you are on track to reach your goal and accomplish your vision.

No organization is autonomous from the community at large – how is the progress you are making affecting those around you? Sometimes your goals and forward movement can have a positive (or negative) affects on those around you. Recognize that others may not like your growth because it may challenge them — others may see it as a source for inspiration. Either way, keep moving forward.

Letters from Valdosta Kids to Main Street Puppets; Using Puppets in Ministry

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Anna Banana and Pastor Drew talking about our theme for December “Generosity.”

This past Sunday we had a full hour instead of the normal thirty minutes for our children’s worship time. So instead of a craft we gave the children an opportunity to write a letter to the puppets that we introduced this past year. Our goal has been to give the kid’s an avenue to interact with us through the puppets.

For example, if a kid was dealing with an issue at school and didn’t know what to do and didn’t feel comfortable talking with an adult they could write a letter to a puppet. The puppet will then write them back with an answer (from the character’s point of view).

The characters are:

Professor “D” – a mad scientist who lives in an upstairs apartment. He is trying to take over the world with his overthought experiments (exploding cookies). Most of the time these experiments end up exploding in his apartment. He also shoots the kids with a water gun full of his slow acting kids growing formula.

Anna Banana – a teen girl who is focused on how she looks, who likes her, and is very prideful. She is learning that how we look on the inside is far more important than how we look on the outside, and what God thinks about us is far more important than what other people think.

10711119_1550432785170400_6413108207279361357_nRoad Kill – a slow speaking sweat spirited opossum that lives in a trashcan outside of the local pizzeria. He loves to eat the pizzas that are thrown out of Luigi’s. He makes the owner mad because he is always getting trash everywhere.

Jonathan and David – are brothers that live below Professor D. They are always arguing about something, so they are learning to get along as a family. They like football (just not the same teams), and just about any kind of sports activity.

Luigi — the owner of the Main Street pizzeria and is constantly experimenting with new kinds of pizzas. To the kids they come across as gross and usually end up getting thrown out (to Road Kill) because no one eats them.

Goober works at Luigi’s Pizzaria and is learning what it means to work. He tries to take short cuts in his work and it is constantly getting im trouble with Luigi.

 

There were many that asked what the various characters wanted for Christmas. For example;

Dear Prof. D,

What do you want for Christmas? Please don’t explode my kitchen. Also, I loved you spraying me with a water gun. Do it again please.

Sincerely,

Child’s name

P.S. write me back.

 

1509664_1564709193748519_7015106914857068366_nDear Luigi,

I’m ok, no proplims the only thing I have to ask is what do you want for Christmas? I mean what do puppets want.

From, Child’s name

 

Some of the kid’s letters were just questions about the puppet’s lives. For example;

Dear Road Kill,

You smell like a dirty diaper!

Merry Christmas,

Child’s name

 

1468634_365939650241327_4421200605261584272_nTo Anna Banana,

From Child’s name

What is your favorite color? What do you like about it? Well how about . . .what is your favorite shape? I bet it is is cool! I like that you visited me on Sunday! Bye.

 

Dear Anna Banana,

What is your favorite holiday mine is Christmas? Do you like to dance? I like your outfit that you wear. What is your favorite hobby?

Love, Child’s name (heart shape, heart shape, smiley face)

 

Dear Road Kill,

Why do you live in a trashcan full of newspaper?

From,

Child’s name

 

Out of over fifty letters that we received, there were a few that had genuine questions nested in their comments. Here’s some;

Dear Dr. D, (the actual character name is Professor D)

Hi, there is this toy at target that is like so cool, it is a dog that when you take a walk she will be at your side. It is called “gogo doggy.” When I ask mom for it she says no then I always get mad. What should I do, please help.

From,

Child’s name

P.S. When you blow stuff up it is so cool, you are cool.

 

Dear Road Kill,

My sister is a literer. What do I do? I tell her to stop but she doesn’t stop. What do I do. I hope you visit – probably soon.

Child’s name

 

Dear Dr. D,

I hope you are having a good day. I am having a hard time on open books science tests what do I do?

Sincerely,

Child’s name

 

Dear Prof. D,

Hi. All you care about is explosens. You’re trying to take over the world with cookies. There is this kid that calls me a cry baby whenever we play four spare in p.e. For secret Santa in main street Anna Banana pulled out you. You’re the best puppet exploder ever! How do you like to play video games.

Form,

Child’s name

 

To: Goober

From: Child’s name

Dear Goober, how do I get on the nice list?

 

To Anna,

From Child’s name

My week is going Bad. My mom is making me go outside in the sun.

 

Dear Prof. D.

How do I not get frustrated during the week? How do I change a bad day into a good day?

Child’s name

 

Then there were just kid’s showing concern for their puppet friends;

 

Dear Prof. D, What is your 3 things that explode that you want for Christmas. Is it a cookie that explodes and turns brown. What is it? Do you want toilet paper to wipe your butt? What ever you want don’t get your butt burned!

From,

Child’s name

 

Dear Pro D.,

I love your shows. You are old.

Love,

Child’s name

 

Dear Road Kill,

Are you actually Road Kill?

Child’s name

 

This coming Sunday we plan to introduce a new mail delivery person character who will give the kids the response letters from the puppets.

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In the psychological world of dramatic play specifically with the use of puppets, “The child’s imagination creates a buffer and a flexible “space” to explore tough stuff.” [1] In Valdosta Kid’s Main Street we are able to exhibit bad attitudes, bad behavior, pain, and even frustration through the puppets and then talk about their feelings. On the outside looking in Anna Banana may be seen by other adults as being mean or rude (and sometime she is), but we are able to then talk about her behavior in a safe way.

One week the Luigi puppet said that his dad was not around very much during one of our skits. To our surprise one young boy spoke out very loudly and said, “Luigi, my dad’s not around very much either.” For a moment in time we were able to break through all kinds of barriers and speak right to his heart. His imagination was so engaged that he was “in the moment.” Those moments are what we strive for every week, but don’t always get there. But when they do happen, it makes ministry very special.

* Click here to read more regarding the use of puppets and how they have been used successfully to entertain and minister to children.

* Click here to see a video of the puppets talking about a recent t-shirt design contest.

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[1] https://achildinmind.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/you-can-tell-me-anything-im-a-puppet-why-play-therapy-works/

 

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