The Grouch That Taught My Class; Lesson Preparation That Keeps You Friendly
Most teachers would say that their teaching ministry is very important and that they have a desire to impact the lives of their students. However, 80% of all Children’s Ministry teachers prepare their lessons after 10pm on Saturday night. Why is that such an important task get pushed to the very last minute? People work a forty-hour week (plus), they have families, etc… so everything gets pushed back.
Let’s face it, we are all very busy, and everything competes for our time. In addition to the time crunch issue, many curriculums are so teacher friendly that the lessons are basically self-taught. So the tendency is to simply skim the material and “shoot from the hip.†But, the church of today needs teachers (and parents) who are spiritually deep, doctrinally accurate, and well prepared for class. To do any less is not giving our best to the Lord, and the task that He has given our hands to do.
So how can we deal with our busy schedules, and prepare for our class? First consider the following questions, “How much time can you give?†and “How can you save time in lesson preparation?†A teacher’s study time usually takes place on two levels:
(1) Their daily study and quiet time. Most teachers understand their need to personally commune with God, and make sure their hearts are right before seeking to minister to others. Lifeguards need to know how to swim!
(2) The time they spend preparing for their lessons. Why not combine the two? You can save time and add power to your teaching by leveraging these times together. Make your personal daily Bible study time your lesson study time.
Also, managing your time and thinking through your week enables you to break the over all material down into bite size pieces and make it more meaningful to you personally. This will also give you time to think through the Scripture and how it applies to the life of your students (their learning styles, personalities, what they would enjoy, what worked in the past, etc…)
So let’s break down the week:
A. Monday
Students need teachers who pray and ask God for direction. So on Monday pray and ask God for direction. Open the curriculum and read it quickly. Then close it. Discover where your lesson is in the Bible, read it quickly just to get the over all perspective.
Why? God knows your children and what they need.
We need to go to Him first and let Him speak to us. Ask God to show you the most important truth; this will become your main theme. Have one theme and only one. Ask yourself, “Why is this story in the Bible?â€Â Don’t ramble.
B. Tuesday
As you go through the day think about the lesson. No Bible, No curriculum. Use other resources such as Haley’s Bible Handbook or a Bible Dictionary. This will be time when you reference other background resources.
C. Wednesday
Pray and ask God to give you the same feelings everyone in the story had. Pause on each person. Develop three adjectives (words that describe a noun) to describe their: (a) physical appearance and (b) character.
For example: I Sam. 17:ff
Physical appearance  David; small, armor, etc.  Goliath; Tall, Strong, etc.
Character David; Loved God, etc.       Goliath;   Arrogant, Bully, Armor
Then make a brief outline; for our example in 1 Samuel 17ff, it potentially would look like this:
A)Â Â David talks to his father
B)Â Â David goes to the battlefield
C)Â Â David challenges
D)Â Â David wins
D. Thursday
Don’t study at all, just meditate. Ask God to show you creative ways to teach the main theme. Pray and then listen. Keep your mind in neutral. Everything (kids, work, tasks to be done) must be temporarily put aside. Children will go home and tell their parents about the “cool†things they learned at Children’s Church, if the lessons are remembered.
Therefore, we must be creative in our lesson planning time.
For example: “The grass withers and the flowers fade, but the Word of the Lord lasts forever.â€Â  A simple but very effective way to teach this would be to hold up a faded and fresh flower, fresh and faded grass, and hold up the Bible. But it had to be prepared ahead. It is very difficult to find fresh and faded flowers after 10pm on Saturday night!
E. Friday
Open the curriculum, and read through the support material. This is the time to get practical. Go ahead and assemble visual aids, object lessons, etc. Practice telling the story thinking through everything that you will need. Pray and thank God for the creative ideas.
F. Saturday
Pray and spend time with the family. Nothing to do here, the work is done.
Not only are there the time crunch and creativity issues that are involved when we wait until the last minute, there are also the physical and emotional issues as well. If we are up late the night before, we are tired and aren’t able to give our students our all. By breaking the material down, and studying it over the week, then you are able to have an awesome lesson, but you will also be able to deliver it when you are at your best. If you are grouchy, and short tempered because you are tired, then it is not the students’ fault when they act like “students.†It’s your fault for not being prepared for them.
Colossians 3:23-24 “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, 24 knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.â€
May God bless your ministry as you seek to give Him your best!
*This article was adapted from a lecture given by Sandy Sprott at the Children’s Pastor’s Conference in 2002.
Brunswick Police Visit Boswell Home
Wait, it’s not what you think.
The Bears from Pack 277 were visited by a Brunswick Police Officer who took time from his busy schedule to talk to the boys about police work. The Bears asked many questions (mostly influenced by Batman and other television shows). Some questions included, “what if everyone from jail escaped at the same time?” and “what if there were three bad guys against you, what would you do?” and so on and so forth.
The officer explained what the badge means, its origins, and explained the equipment that he carried with him as an officer (including handcuffs). Caleb locked himself in the handcuffs and had to be released. Then they went out to the officer’s car where he explained his computer, how he pulls people over, and the spot light on the side.
The officer was very gracious and patient with the boys and taught them some much needed information.
Thank you Brunswick Police Department.
Overcoming the Challenge of Recruiting
Some Rules For the Road
If you talk with any leader, at any level, at any size, they will always say they need more people. In the Bible when God called leaders in the Old Testament, they often responded by making excuses, demanding signs, or running away. Jesus, in the New Testament had outright rejection, people followed for a short time, and then abandoned or betrayed Him. So recruiting people has always been and will always be difficult. But, there are some methods that may make this difficult task a little easier.
In ministry we begin with the assumption that God will supply what we need, so we must trust God in this area, just as we trust him in other areas of our lives. In Matthew 16:18 Jesus says, “I will build my church.” It is God’s responsibility to build his church and to provide the resources that the ministry needs to do the work. The leader must therefore, stay in tune with God’s plan through prayer and repentance of sin.
The following are some suggestions for the leader to apply to their recruiting effort:
Start with vision — what are you trying to accomplish that is so big that you need their help to accomplish it? and then. . . .
1. Cultivate a positive attitude and expect God to guide us to the people whom He’s already chosen. If you say to yourself, “I guess I’ll just do it all by myself,” you will stop looking for the people that God may have put right in front of you to help you with the work. So, when the person does come (finally), you can say to them, “I have been praying that God would bring you, and here you are!”
2. Pray before you approach someone. God will lead you to the person. Remember this is God’s work, and He has created a person to fit the role that His ministry needs, in His timing. So the person we may be imagining for the task, may look completely different than we imagined or were looking for. Listen to God for His plan (not yours.)
3. Create an atmosphere that is conductive to recruitment. Tell them why this position important. People don’t want to be involved in something that is not important. Why do we then tell them that, “this will not take a lot of time,” or “this will not really cost you anything,” or “this really isn’t that important, but we want it to be done.” You should have a ministry explanation or description of the every task you are seeking people to fill.
4. Tell the congregation about the great things that are happening in your ministry. Always publicize your success. How many of us have heard (or heaven forbid have done) of a person begging for people to come and help with a particular area of ministry and trying to guilt them into service.
The problem with this approach is that the commitment level is really low, as soon as the perceived crisis is over, so will the volunteer. But if they understand how important the role they are playing truly is, they will stay past the “recruiting pinch.”
People want to be involved in areas where God is moving and they want to be apart of that, not the ministry that is sinking and people are grabbing for anyone like a drowning man.
5. Introduce pizzazz into your activities. Is your ministry exciting? When the leader is already overwhelmed with tasks, and needs people to be apart of the ministry they must resist the temptation to downsize and take away those little things that makes the ministry shine. If you go back to bare minimum, then that’s what people see, show them that the ministry is important by adding special touches that make it shine. You are putting in extra effort, they will follow your example.
6. Emphasize the joys of ministering to others, you are not filling slots, but giving people opportunities to serve the Lord. This is not about a task to be done but a “ministering opportunity” for them to make a difference. You are presenting an opportunity for them to serve God, have an eternal impact on people, and a way for them to get connected into their church.
7. Make Your Area Fun! Serving in the church should be fun, encouraging, and life changing. Tell a joke, honk a horn, smile, laugh — make what you do fun. Volunteers want to use their gifts to serve the Lord, but they also want to make friends, build relationships, and feel like they are making a difference. Don’t always focus on areas that need improvement, celebrate success together!
Selecting Qualified Workers
You have now added some pizzazz to your ministry, talked about how wonderful it is constantly, and have your job descriptions together and people have stopped running away when they see you coming. One person has even approached you about “maybe” having an interest in helping,” so what do you do? Wait! Before you tackle them and handcuff them to the ministry, think about these things:
1. God wants quality, not perfection. God doesn’t necessarily choose the best and brightest to do His work (1 Cor. 1:26-29,31; 1 Cor. 2:1-5). Instead He works with those who love Him, and desire to de their best to serve Him. If you wait around for perfection, then you will be doing the ministry all by yourself forever (or until you burn out).
2. God doesn’t necessarily pick the most appealing: We will be working with “diamonds in the rough,” We may need to spend time challenging them, training them, guiding them, and encouraging them. God may have put a person in front of you so that you can mentor them and build them up into the role you need. That fully trained, mature, and perfect person rarely if ever parachutes into ministries. Look around and see who is willing to do their best, loves Jesus, and is willing to learn. Then go to work.
3. Jesus selected average men. It has been said that “God set the world on fire with low grade fuel.” Of course you would never say this about people in your ministry area, but you can see how it may be true for other churches. But, be on the look-out for an average person who is ready to go to work. Jesus chose fishermen, tax collectors, everyday, average people to “turn the world upside down.”
4. Most important, Put people in positions where they are gifted. If you do this then they will enjoy what they do, and those they minister to will be blessed. If you just fill slots with people who hate or dread what they are doing, that will spill out into the people they minister to, and the overall effort will suffer. The volunteer will be frustrated and will quit because they feel they are not effective. Even if a person volunteers (and you really need someone) don’t let them serve in an area where they clearly are not gifted. You may feel it helps right now, but it will not be very long before the mismatch will begin to cause other problems.
This is not to say that people should not be allowed to experiment with service in your area. People need to feel freedom to come in and try your area, and they should also feel the freedom to leave if it not a good match for them. While at the same time there must be an understood level of commitment (either for length of service or responsibilities).
Personal Interview
Before the volunteer begins someone (preferably the ministry leader) should sit down and talk with them about what is involved in the ministry position and ask them questions to determine if they would be a good fit. They should be given the ministry/job description and review it together. The interviewer may ask questions about their spiritual maturity, other places of service, or what they think about the church as a whole. Allow the potential volunteer an opportunity to ask questions, and have a plan in place for training before they begin. The personal interview also allows the leader to develop a relationship with the volunteer.
For more information on a personal interview with a volunteer see, Arlo Grentz, The Confident Leader: Getting a Good Start as a Christian Minister (Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 1994), 113-16.
Some Last Thoughts on Recruiting and Volunteers
1) Most leaders go to what they know (first) — they will ask their friends, spouses, relatives, etc. to help in volunteers roles. While this is easy and potentially quick, avoid the temptation to do this all the time. Yes, they will help you, but you will burn everyone out around you if you don’t expand your recruiting circle. Don’t make them your first “go to” every time someone calls out sick, there is a hole in the schedule, etc.
2) Don’t burn out your faithful! There are those noble few who will be with you no matter what — their spiritual health is just as important as anyone else’s. Give them breaks, let them go to the service, etc. They will help you build (Or rebuild), but avoid burning them out as you are bringing other new volunteers along.
3) If you are the new leader, don’t be surprised when your current volunteers want to step down as you are coming on board — they have been holding the line until you arrived, and now they are tired, and may have been tired for a long time. Let them rest, and recover, but let them know you want them to come back when they are ready. When they come back back, take them through the process above so that they are serving where they are gifted, serving an appropriate length and amount of time, and are having fun!
A Path Toward Making A Difference
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