Twenty-Two Years of Steadfast Service to the Lord
After looking at other churches Terri Warren and her husband Mike decided to become members of First Baptist Church of Valdosta Georgia in 1979. At the time she was a stay at home mom and the Director of the preschool had stepped down. She approached Mac Weaver about filling in the interim and twenty-two years later she has become a beloved member and essential part of the children’s ministry at FBCV.
When she began she was looking for something that “she could do with the girls†and now she is able to not only have her children go through the FBCV children’s ministry, but also her grandchildren are benefitting from her love and leadership.
When asked “What is it about children’s ministry that you enjoy?†a smile came to her face and she responded, “I enjoy seeing families and parents being content with what is happening at church. I remember being a mom with little ones and how stressful it is.â€Â Terri has a heart for children and their families. She understands the importance of creating a welcoming, safe, and loving environment so that children feel loved and parents feel at ease.
I asked her, “What is one big life lesson that you would pass on to today’s parents?†and she said, “It is very important to be in church and for children to know that there are people who love them and that Jesus loves them.â€
What more could you want from a Preschool Director? Terri is a tireless servant for the Lord, and she can be found at all hours, all days of the week in the Children’s Building serving children and their families. Most of the time she will be comforting a screaming baby, breaking up a toddler tussle, or counseling a group of mom’s through her loving disposition and style.  As with all great leaders, she has a set of responsibilities that she manages, but there are also countless other details that she does outside of those responsibilities that no ever knows about that add special touches to the children’s ministry.
As a new staff person, I look to her experience, leadership, and the many relationships that she has formed with FBCV families, and she has helped me tremendously. She is greatly loved and the church’s ministry is great because of her many years of steadfast devotion.
Terri, on behalf of the parents, grandparents, and the children of today and of many years past, we thank you for your service to the Lord and to His church. I feel so blessed that my children are able to know you and to learn from you, and you have been such a blessing to our family.
So What Did We Learn From All This?
So there it is, the whole drawn out retched account of a mission trip that went wrong. I took the previous blog entries, printed them out and turned them into the church staff. I was unsure if I should even post them, so I waited until they had an opportunity to review them, and to discuss the whole ordeal. There was concern and questions on my part. FBCV has such a strong record of missions and outreach, I did not want to damage that reputation with this story. Also, there may be people who would say, “see, this is why we shouldn’t go, but just send money instead†or “This is why we should focus more on home missions.
After my discussion with the senior pastor and the associate pastor in separate meetings, their response was basically the same. Pastor Phil said, “sometimes when you try to help people you get taken.†And Pastor Mac’s response was, “I feel like we should tell the whole truth.†It is such a contrast between leadership who know the value of the truth, and those that don’t. I believe that this debauched trip teaches us several things and in the long run makes our mission’s efforts even stronger.
When we work together we can accomplish more.
1.  Cooperative Giving. The Southern Baptist Convention has the strongest missions organization (International Missions Board) and sends more missionaries than anyone else (and it’s not even close). If you are a Southern Baptist, you should give to its annual collections of Annie Armstrong (local) and Lottie Moon (foreign). I guess that’s why they call it Cooperative Giving.
By cooperating in our combined giving we are able to do much more than individual churches working on their own. We tend to get caught up in the “red tape†and magnitude of the operation that we forget that at the end of the day there are missionaries on the other side of the planet that are depending upon us.
Also, churches have a tendency to want to have projects that they can put their names on, therefore, they tend to run parallel missions efforts to the IMB. I have learned that if we work with the IMB missionaries and support their strategic efforts (instead of asking them to help us in our efforts) then we will have an increased potential to have a greater impact.
Our giving does not preclude us from going. We give to support missions and much of this giving goes to support the salaries and needs of the missionaries, but we are not paying them to do missions for us. Instead, they are laying the groundwork, developing a strategy, and building relationships with the locals, and we follow (“goâ€) with encouragement, support, prayer, and “boots on the ground.†They lead and we give the muscle.
2. Â Institutional Memory. The lesson that I learned was not the first time that this scenario has played itself out. Instead of every church having to relearn lessons we could work with the IMB and its missionaries where we will be able to bypass these mistakes and life lessons and move on with an experienced organization and staff.
3.  Cooperating Churches. I do believe that God calls churches, who have a unique and distinct personality, to reach out to specific people groups and regions around the world. But just as when nationally SBC churches cooperatively give toward missions they are able to reach vast amounts of people around the globe with the gospel, so local churches who combine their resources and people toward missions can do more as well. I have greatly enjoyed working with different churches in the Valdosta area on the mission trips that I have been on. It’s been amazing to watch God work as he brought certain people together to accomplish his will for a given period of time.
Touching the Untouchables
In Hindi Indian society there are varying levels of strictness of their religion (as in all religions). But in all castes there is a despising and alienation of the “untouchable.” The “untouchables” are the lowest caste and there are many societal rules that are imposed upon them. Many are beaten, paraded naked through the streets, raped, and even killed for offenses as minor as plucking flowers (see article link below) or doing jobs other than what they are allowed to do. Most of their jobs are extremely menial such as cleaning sewage with their bare hands or hauling rocks in fields.
With over 80% of the country being Hindi and it’s belief in Karma and reincarnation there is the belief that if you are born into the lower castes, or have a disease to become an untouchable then you must deserve being mistreated because of your sin in a past life. Those in upper castes regulate these lower untouchables to keep them in their place and to ensure that extremely cheap labor and menial jobs are done by these people. One of the lowest of the low is the life of a leper.
Today we had the privilege of touching the untouchables. When we got into our cars to visit a leper colony I was expecting to be traveling an hour or so out of the city, or at least to some distant area of the city. But we were in our cars less than ten minutes. The colony was under a large bridge that ran through the middle of the city. Indian homes, shops, and thousands of people surrounded the leper’s shanty. Could they really sleep knowing that people were suffering so greatly and being so close?
When we arrived most of the occupants had already left to beg for the day. Begging is the only “occupation” those with leprosy are allowed to do. Most of those left were small children, and those not physically capable of begging. Their homes are nothing more than rock floors, ropes strung between trees with rags for walls. Their bathrooms are small pieces of property covered with trash where the entire colony goes. I cannot even begin to describe the smell, but it was awful. Children go about without clothes and the adult’s clothes are nothing more than rags pieced together. Those lucky enough to have some sort of structure to live in are crude and small.
There is a cure for leprosy, so the fact that it not given to these people is even more horrific. Three antibiotics given for about a year period and costing less than $300 would change these people’s lives forever. There is a 0.1% chance that once they are treated that they will not recover from leprosy. The Hindi followers place so little value on the untouchables lives that they won’t even give them the cure. So millions of people suffer “the living death.” Unlike HIV or STDs, no one knows how leprosy is contracted or how it is passed from person to person.
One of my assignments on this mission trip was to identify an “unreached people group.”[1] Currently in many Indian cities there are leper colonies that have no IMB contact and there are no works taking place in these colonies. When we went in and shook their hands, made eye contact, and smiled, we became rock stars in the colony. Everyone came out of their “houses” to see us, and joined us for an impromptu worship service and time of prayer. They wanted to have pictures taken of their deformed rotting Frankenstein bodies perhaps in a hope that those that saw them may help them. It is my suggestion that if anyone would be open to the gospel and in need of our help in India then it would the untouchables with leprosy.
For further information on “untouchables” click here.
[1] An “unreached” or “least-reached” people is a people group among which there is no indigenous community of believing Christians with adequate numbers and resources to evangelize this people group.
Missions Can Be Eye Opening
Persecution and Orphans
In 2006 Communist Insurgence killed a well known Hindu priest in Jaglaphur, India. The Hindu people blamed the local Christians for the death. What followed were weeks of persecution for Christians where hundreds of people were killed, many homes and churches were burned, and hundreds of children were left as orphans. Local pastors were targeted and the event escalated. The Catholic Church put pressure on Jaglaphur local officials when a nun was burned alive. A curfew was then established and the violence eventually ended. As dark as this story is, it gets worse. But before we see how the story progresses we need to go back in history.
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A History of Corruption
IMB Missionaries have been going into the jungle “wilderness†and cities of India for several generations. These early missionaries established churches and a method of spreading the gospel from village to village. The method looks like a spider web with a native planting pastor in the center, and as he plants churches the winding and expanding circles report to him, give him their monies, and look to him for leadership. So you end up with these “head†pastors developing a network of pastors and churches numbering in the hundreds.
With everything in life there is the potential for it to become corrupt and corruption filters throughout all of the Indian society. It has been such a way of life that it even affects the public education of it’s children. In many Indian public schools, teachers teach only some of what is needed to pass state tests. Then they offer their services as a private tutor to teach paying students the other needed information to pass these state exams. So the only way for poor, illiterate, and uneducated communities to have their children pass these tests is for them to pay the tutors.
Some of these “head†planting pastors have learned that if you can plant enough “Christian†churches then this is a great way to become wealthy. They have developed a hierarchy of lieutenants, sergeants, and others who progress in rank and income according to how many “churches†they plant. There are also many American churches that are looking for opportunities to support “missions†and if you can add the fact that they were persecuted then that makes for a great financially profitable opportunity. Indian pastors even travel to the US telling their horror stories of beatings and persecutions before naïve congregations who buy the scam “hook-line-and-sinker.â€
The persecution and deaths in Janglaphur was horrible, but even more horrible is the fact that some are using that horrible event as a means of taking is huge amounts of revenue. And the story gets even worse.
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Children and “Orphansâ€Â
As apart of our mission trip we were to do training for village pastors and were to visit two orphanages. When we arrived at the orphanage we were greeted with posters with our pictures on it and were told of how the children prayed for us everyday. Women washed our feet and children sang songs for us. They served us lunch and were given a tour of the facility. Let me tell you, I was hooked. (see previous blog entry).
I don’t believe that this was a total lie, but we began to become suspicious when we contacted another church that was working with the orphanage as well. They had paid to have a well dug, only to be told that more money was needed. They told us of how they had given money for generators and buildings, etc. only to be told again and again more money was needed with no evidence or accounting of how the other money was spent. I specifically asked the local “head†pastor if he was working with any other churches and he said, “no, you are the only one.â€
Yet, my colleague has a picture of another American pastor and mission team standing in the very spot where I asked the question. Is this a pastor who feels the need to bend the truth in order to supply necessary supplies to the orphans? If so, why not just say, “I spent the money on food because it was needed over building bathrooms or a wallâ€, etc. Any church I have ever worked with would have understood this, and made changes.
We then went to do pastoral training. At the first training it went very well. Local pastors came in, asked questions, and we had a good session. At the time we gave the training we had no suspicion of any wrongdoing. But when we drove out to a remote orphanage and conducted the second training and visited that orphanage, something just wasn’t right. There weren’t enough beds for all of the children, and it just didn’t look like someone lived there all the time, much less forty plus children and supervising adults.
We asked through a translator “How many of you are pastors?†only two raised their hands. So we asked a follow up question, “how many of you are Christians,†and only a few raised their hands. Not only were we not teaching pastors, we were not even teaching believers. So we shared the gospel several ways. Later, we even suspected that the children really did not live there and that people were hired to come in and act as “pastors†and their wives, and for children to pretend to be orphans.  Did something happen to the original group of pastors and their wives, that the local native pastor felt the need for this subterfuge?
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Why Did We Go to India?
How much of this is true, an outright lie, or some twisted cultural disguise of the truth I will never know. But there are too many red flags and too many complications for any ministry partnership to be possible. Â If there are any orphans, they are the ones who will suffer the most.
Imagine, men who may have even been persecuted for being a Christian now using that “blessing†to sell the name of Christ and using children in this fashion is reprehensible. This trip has opened my eyes to many things. I do have a deep feeling of betrayal and disgust, but I am not bitter nor do I have a diminished desire to share the gospel around the world.
As I lay in the hotel room after all of this came to light I asked, “Why did we come here?†“Why would God lead us to come to this place and carry this expense only to be “flimflammed� It took thirty-six hours of exhausting travel just to get there. Why?
It was at this point that we were able to have breakfast with the local IMB missionary and his director. They were able to help build in some backstory to the whole ordeal. We heard of how this was not the first time in this pastor’s life that he had operated his ministries this way and on at least one occasion had suddenly left town – disappeared when things grew too “hot.†I have a renewed appreciation for the International Missionary Board and the great value they give to churches seeking to engage in missions. We were able to spend hours discussing this event, and potential future works in India.
This is not the first time we have sought to go to a difficult regions and work with locals, only to discover the necessity of working with and through a local IMB missionary.
I do not want to give the impression that all Indian pastors are corrupt, or that all the churches are not genuine churches. I met several godly pastors who truly are seeking the Lord and his plan for India. They are hard working and love Jesus. They need our prayers and support in their ministries. But they are caught up in this twisting of greed and corruption, and some may not even know it (or know better).
Why did we go to India? I believe God sent me to see an entire lost country and the effects of a false religion upon its people, it’s land, and all of life. With 80% of Indian society being Hindi, this way of thinking and religion filters down to all aspects of society. It’s cast system keeps people in poverty and fuels hate amongst groups of people. It’s philosophy discourages innovation, and in many ways the country stays in darkness.
Where Do We Go From Here?
The local IMB missionary said, “There is a reason why there are ‘unreached people groups,’ it’s because they are difficult to get to.†India is an entire country of lost people who are going to hell by the thousands every day. Satan works to keep the gospel out, even to the point of creating a religion to keep the hearts and minds of people in darkness. He has even bent the hearts of local Christian pastors toward corruption.
IMB is doing a good work there because when we visited one of their pastoral trainings there was a distinct difference in the group of pastors we saw in the villages, and the ones they were working with. The main difference was their eyes. In the saved pastors eyes were a sense of joy for life, and an excitement over the gospel. Smiles were everywhere, and they were excited about going to their areas and sharing with others. God is working in India, and he has not forgotten them.
Will I ever go back? As of right now, I am exhausted, experiencing serious jet lag, and mending hurt feelings of being betrayed. I know I should not allow one man to keep anyone from an entire nation of lost people. So, I will rest, pray, and see what God would have me to do.  I do know this, if God calls us to go back – I will be working along side of an IMB missionary.
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